Confused….or I think, you got it.
The title may seem confusing to many …rude to some…lame to few..but I’d say I meant each & every word & it does make perfect sense. Each & every one of us in some way or the other have for sure helped someone. Remember giving that poor guy few bucks or remember how you were there when he/she needed you the most or remember how you helped a friend by running some errands for him/her . We all have in a certain phase of our lives in some direct or indirect way helped out a person in need . I mean the one’s who deserve your help & feel the satisfaction that you get once you see them happy , that feeling is simply something which can’t be described using any possible combination of words from the English dictionary .We all have been there . I am nobody to question the people who are generous & I am no way saying something which can be taken as offensive .
I always tend to say this to the one’s around me , may sound rude/mean but I feel this is the very truth “People don’t help others for the sake of others, they do it for themselves..to make themselves feel good about it” & trust me either ways the output is what that matters.
You do that for them or for yourself ,somebody definitely is getting helped. So , that is what eventually matters right .Your extent of liveliness is directly proportional to the extent of your feeling to help others. A few days back I read something somewhere but can’t remember the exact words or the person who said that , but I really liked the idea behind what he/she said . It somewhat goes like this “ There is only one way to feel hopeful in this hustle bustle, not that good world .You have to take the initiative & do something. Don’t you wait for the happy things to happen to you. If you go out there , do something nice by making someone happy then you feel there is some hope left in this world & that is how you can be hopeful yourself.
So the bottom line is let’s not be a fine addition to the world’s gallery of people who are grotesques from within as it only good to encourage it in modern art not modern world. Let’s make sure we serve others still knowing the above title ‘coz eventually doing that would help two not one.